Nov
12
2009In my last post, I mentioned that the nurse had suggested that the girls might have a milk allergy. I had cried. Life without cheese and chocolate… is that life? Luckily for my sanity last week, the Dr. had suggested that it was probably just reflux. I was so worn down that I couldn’t even consider life without milk!
Well, on Saturday the girls screamed and fussed and spit up volumes or didn’t spit up at all after every single feeding. It was terribly perplexing. At their 6 pm feeding I took a mental note of what I had eaten that day. Here’s a copy of that list:
- 2 cups of hot chocolate made with milk
- milk and cereal
- 2-3 pieces of string cheese
- pita pizzas for lunch
- a spur of the moment potato, egg, ham, and cheese casserole for dinner
Are you noticing the theme here? I overloaded the poor babes on milk and they were screaming about it.
Saturday evening I put myself on a milk elimination diet. No milk for two weeks. I pumped the 9pm feeding of the milk overload day and saved it to try on them after the milk is out of our systems. If they react adversely to that pumped feeding it’s another month on the no milk diet before trying them on milk again.
I’ll keep you posted on their reaction. But at least if I can’t have cheese, Whole Foods makes Vegan chocolate chips!
Nov
12
2009The girls turned two months old today! Since it was also Veteran’s day, their Daddy was home all day. We celebrated by joining Marcie and her twins Zach and Alex on a few laps around the mall. Then we ate some Bourbon chicken with rice and green beans at the food court. That was their rather uneventful morning.
Their 2 month well check-up was at noon. Each girl received an oral rota-virus and FOUR shots in their little legs. I do have to congratulate the nurses who gave the shots: each girl received all of the shots and all four bandages in less that 15 seconds! The efficiency was utterly astounding! I nursed the girls afterward and then we packed up to leave.
We stopped by Whole Foods on the way home to pick up vegan chocolate chips (I’ll explain in an upcoming post) and a few things for dinner that evening. On the way out we noticed their sorbets. To celebrate their birthday Derek had a mixed berry sorbet and I had a strawberry-pineapple. So good!
Exhausted from our day out, Derek and I crawled in bed for an hour nap. 20minutes later we were joined by both of the girls who were whimpering in their car seats. An hour after that I woke up to Aeralind freaking out for food. Bronwyn soon followed suit. But both little girls screamed and complained and were inconsolable their entire time nursing. I’m not even sure how they managed to eat!
Derek went out to grab the Infant Tylenol and we drugged the poor souls. We then wrapped them in their Moby Wraps to fix and eat dinner. They barely woke to nurse at 7:00 and have been in their crib asleep ever since. Poor dears! Besides this sad period between 4-7 the shots weren’t nearly as hard as I had expected. Hopefully they’ll be their normal selves tomorrow!
In my sleep deprived state it’s hard to remember what has occurred in this last month! But I’ll try to give you a milestone list nevertheless:
- The girls slept 7 straight hours one night! They haven’t done it since, but I think they may do so tonight again after all their excitement.
- Both girls enjoy being held in a sitting position and attempting to hold up their heads. They can manage to do so for 15-30 seconds before needing a break.
- Tummy time is becoming quite entertaining! They’ll lift up their heads and feet at the same time or do a repeated face plant that doesn’t bother them.
- Bronwyn is becoming more aware of when she is being held. She loves to be held now and fusses if we lay her down after she’s fallen asleep.
- Aeralind has officially been dubbed our “social baby.” If she’s aware of new voices or in a new place she will sit there wide eyed and watching. She’s stayed up 3+ hours while Bronwyn slept peacefully.
- We’ve joined the impromptu “Under One Crowd” in our local Moms of Multiples group and are enjoying frequent Mom play dates with Marcie and Amber.
- I’ve been nursing them for every feeding except for the middle of the night feeding for two days now.
- Aeralind weighs an incredible 9lbs 5 oz and Bronwyn 9lbs 2oz. They’re a pound and a few ounces short of doubling their birth weight in two months!
- Both girls prefer to be burped by Derek. In fact, I’ve told Derek they’ll burp for him if he looks at them cross eyed and I promise you they have done so multiple times!
- They went to their first bonfire on a Sunday evening and enjoyed s’mores.
- They visited with Nana on her farm for their first Farm Days. The three of us girls fell in love with a three-legged orange cat; daddy…not so much…
- Their eyes are turning blue!
- It’s becoming harder and harder to remember when we last had a good night of sleep.
- But mostly it’s becoming harder and harder to imagine life without the gift of their presence.
Happy two month birthday, Aeralind and Bronwyn! I can’t wait to see what the next month brings!
Nov
10
2009I made these little outfits to bring the girls home in. They are 0-3 month sized and swallowed the girls when we brought them home.
Tomorrow is their two month birthday and look at them now!
Nov
07
2009The middle two weeks of October passed with very little difference in routine. I fed the girls from the breast 2-4 feedings a day and pumped the remainder.
Setting up to nurse tandem by myself is quite the adventure. First, I heat the breast shields. Next, I set up my pillow and nursing stool on the couch that I want to use for that feeding. Then, I go change the first baby and bring her back to the couch. I lay her on the couch and repeat with the second baby. Then I strap on the pillow and pick up the baby who is to eat off of my right side. I put her on the pillow as I sit down and scoop up the left side baby. Then, I apply the nipple shields while both babies scream in hunger while flailing around doing there best to dislodge the shields from my nipples. Then you latch one at a time while hoping the one who is screaming doesn’t roll herself off. Whew! By the time that process is over and the girls are happily sucking away, don’t be surprised to find me asleep while they eat!
The last week in October was not a happy one. Derek’s sister had come up to visit and the girls were extremely fussy after each feeding. They were also spitting up quite a bunch. It seemed normal to me until I went to the Upstate Mother of Multiples Club Meeting Tuesday the 26th. Amber was feeding Aeralind and I was feeding Bronwyn expressed milk and the two of them practically spewed their entire bottles on both of us. Both burp cloths were soaked and every lady who held them was sporting spit up of some kind. They all encouraged me to call my pediatrician; that was not a normal amount of spit up!
So I called and told the pediatrician that their crib looked like a biochemical war zone with the amount of spit up. The nurse told me they probably had a milk protein allergy. I cried! Those 500 or so extra calories I’m eating a day are probably all composed of dairy. What was I going to eat?! I couldn’t imagine breastfeeding and not getting to eat anything with milk in it.
Just in case it was something wrong with the digestive tracts of the girls the nurse told me to come in that afternoon. I was exhausted from their spit up the evening before, but I managed the trip alone. Dr. Woodleif took extra special care of me since this was the first time I had gone to her office alone and she could see how stretched I was. I told her that the girls ate heartily and then would start screaming. They would scream and then spit up. Pause a little while and then scream and spit up again. They knew what was coming. She asked me if the girls arched their backs before the spit and I replied that they did; it was like ready, aim, rush to get the burp cloth!
Dr. Woodleif diagnosed us with reflux and not a milk protein allergy! I’m giving my 8 week old twins Zantac three times a day which seems totally crazy to me. However, as they developed the reflux they had gone from sleeping six hours a night to sleeping 3 hours and then being up 30-90 minutes screaming and spitting. I needed sleep again! It’s been about a week on the Zantac at this point and the difference is striking. We no longer need two burp cloths per baby at their night feedings. I am so glad that the problem was not one I was creating for the girls.
One of the other nightmares of breastfeeding twins are growth spurts. With one baby I’m sure that a growth spurt is incredibly exhausting since the baby wants to feed all the time. I think the physical exhaustion level is probably about the same for mom’s of multiples, but there is an added level of anxious exhaustion. Twins, even my apparently identical ones, do not go through growth spurts at the same time. Perhaps this doubles the physical exhaustion, but worst of all it disrupts The Feeding Schedule.
As a twin mom who wants a few moments during the day in which to pursue non-twin related activities, The Feeding Schedule is extremely important. Now I’m not so strict as to make my babies scream it out because it hasn’t been three or four hours yet. I pretty much feed on demand and hope they start stretching themselves to the four hours. But if one baby wakes hungry, then I wake the other baby to eat as well; if I didn’t do this, I would be engaged in baby care 2 1/2 hours out of every three! Normally waking one because the other is hungry isn’t an issue. The sleeping twin will greedily eat on the the hungry twin’s cue. But during a growth spurt, one of the girls will want to feed almost twice as often as the other.
The Feeding Schedule for about six hours normally looks like this:
- Hour 1: Change and feed the girls.
- Hour 2: The girls play for maybe 30 minutes while I do housework nearby. Then, they start crying to be put to sleep.
- Hour 3: Girls sleep and I get to do what I want!
- Hour 4: Change and feed the girls.
- Hour 5: The girls play for maybe 30 minutes while I do housework nearby. Then, they start crying to be put to sleep.
- Hour 6: Girls sleep and I get to do what I want!
The Growth Spurt Feeding Schedule looks like this.
- Hour 1: Change and feed the girls.
- Hour 2: The girls play for maybe 30 minutes and I do housework nearby. They both sleep for about half an hour.
- Hour 3: Baby A wakes up screaming for food. I wake Baby B and attempt to feed them both. Baby B falls asleep at the breast.
- Hour 4: Starts with both girls asleep, but quickly Baby B will realize she is very hungry and will demand to eat.
- Hour 5: Baby B is awake playing, but is then put in bed to sleep. I panic about having enough time to make dinner and scourge up some canned soup.
- Hour 6: Baby A is begging to eat again, I am crying and freaking out about the potential of being woken up every hour in the middle of the night. I attempt to let her scream it out until B wakes up but I can’t bear it for very long and attempt to make Baby B eat again.
- Baby A eats greedily and drifts off to sleep at the end of the feeding. Baby B refuses to eat or falls asleep at the nipple.
As you can see, my anxiety level increases drastically during a growth spurt. Add to that fears that the reason Baby A keeps waking is because you’re not making enough milk and you can imagine just how many tears are flowing some days when my husband walks through the door. He tells me immediately to go to bed and somehow, almost magically, when he wakes me for the next feeding he has them eating at the same time. They are mesmerized by him. What woman wouldn’t be mesmerized by such an amazing man?
This post sounds kind of drastically negative, but honestly most days now breastfeeding/pumping is more of a well oiled routine. I’m still using nipple shields and they are still growing. And best of all, I’m not having to buy expensive formula for two babies! Those savings mean that I can shop for more clothing that fits my new twin figure 😉
